I find a man with a stubbly face is very hot .... and looks sexy when he is shaving ....... weaken my knees .... I just LOVE this man ...... George Clooney , the sexiest man in the world....
A friend said to me that she learnt how to LOVE after she had had a baby ..... before that she didn't know how to love ..... There are a lot of people who love me ..... and I love them back too .... but I had never thought about we have to learn to LOVE ...... ??? Does it mean how to love someone without giving him/her pressures ..?? does that mean that the people we thought we loved now actually we don't really love them ???? 一個朋友說他在生了小孩後才懂得如何愛人 我想有很多人愛我 我也愛他們 但在今天之前我不知到我們要學習去愛 ??? 這是說我們學習如何愛一個人而不至於給對方壓力嗎?? 還是說我們以為我們現在愛的人事實上我們其實並不是真的愛他們 ??
so what does this mean ... " when you love someone so much that you just have to set them free " set "WHO " free??? Are we really free ??? mabe our bodies are free from seeing , touching each other ....but what about our minds ??? I saw someone quoted from " Kurt Vonnegut " (Don't ask Tanya who this person is .... I have no idea ..) he says " WE ARE WHAT WE PRETEND TO BE , SO WE MUST BE CAREFUL WHAT WE PRETEND TO BE " Man.... it's deep . BUT WHAT the FUCK does this mean ??? Sorry , I am really stupid .... and don't read a lot ..... unlike some people who read a lot and talk a lot...... I look and look and look ...... I just can't understand it........ what's the meaning behind it ??? We are what we pretend to be .... maybe .... sort of understand this part ..... but why do we have to pretend ??? wouldn't it be a lot easlier that we just STOP pretending ????? 那又為什麼有人說"當你愛一個人那麼多你就會放他自由 " ?? 放誰自由呀 ?? 我們真的自由了嗎? 或許我們不必見到對方所以我們自由 我們的身體因不需碰觸對方而自由 但我們的心真的自由了嗎 ?? 今天我又看到有人引用Kurt Vonnegut 的話 (別問我他是誰 我也不知道 ) " we are what we pretend to be , so we must be careful what we pretend to be " (中文不好 無法正確翻譯 請各位自己努力 ) 天呀 還真是深奧 這是麼狗屁話呀 我們是我們想假裝表現出來的 所以我們必須要小心我們假裝出來的樣子 我可能太笨了 也沒常看書 不像有些人看很多書說很多話 我看了看 我就是看不懂 這句話的背後涵義是什麼 ?? 有點了解 我們本身是我們表現偽裝出來的 但是為什麼我們一定要偽裝 還必須小心的假裝 難道不會容易點如果我們就停止假裝嗎 ??
任何人可以給我點意見 我會很感激 ANYONE WANTS TO GIVE ME SOME HELP HERE ??
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