Tanya & Hua Loo Loo in Switzerland

This is another personality test which I got from a friend ......   is it accurate ? I am not sure .......     you can try doing it .....
     http://www.parttimelove.com/Assessories/NineType/Paper1.aspx


付出型（和藹慷慨，富同情心）

您是外向、快樂、活力充沛、友善、自信、討人歡心，尤其是樂於助人。
您自願為他人提供時間、精力及物質，而且您所贈送的禮物總是經過精心挑選。
您的世界是以人際關係為主，面對別人的需要和感覺有天生的同理心，能調整自己以迎合他人的需要。甚至更徹底地成為別人想要認識的那種人。
您會因應不同的人而有不同的表現，卻不帶任何欺騙成分。 ( okay , this is very true .... I think )

優點：
您會給他人無條件的愛，讓人覺得溫暖。對別人和善，並且經常給別人鼓勵。 ( this will have to be answered by my friends )

缺點：
當人們對您的不斷付出不以為意，或是視而不見時，您會表達出強度足以震驚他人的情緒或憤怒。( this is very true , in fact my ex would probably say again - you always overreact , but only to him - because I was feeling being mistreated )

愛情：
專注於一對一的關係，一旦選定和某個人交往，會以精心設計又而深具誘惑的手段攻擊目標，直至「追到手」為止。 ( not sure about this ...as I have never tried to get someone ..... )

您對自己能讓人人都想和您成為情人的能力感到洋洋得意。
「我能讓每個男人感覺自己就像個國王，即使只是共處一夜。我能讓他因為我拿酒杯的特定方式，就永遠都忘不了我。若這是一段較為長期的關係，我會深入調查他所喜歡的一切，驅使這個人上癮。」

安定方位：自我型
在安定的狀態下您會增強情緒的一面，有從親密關係中抽身而出的傾向。 ( hummm.........   I think ...maybe , but I can't answer this question as I am not my ex  )

壓力方位：挑戰型
當面對感情的壓力或情緒對抗時，您會變得專制、易怒，最後勃然大怒。  ( oh ....yes .....   )
不願遭受控制的慾望會擴大至對自由的渴望，為了維護自己的立場，以平常不曾表現過的方式去抗拒他人的要求。 ( yes yes )

建意：
注意個人的成就及價值
告訴別人您的需要，並讓他們為您而做 ( I am learning to do this now - tell people how I feel and what I really need....maybe still not perfect ...but trying  )
注意「多重人格」的衝突  ( again .........  I am schizzy , I know that )

最渴望：被愛，被別人需要  ( yes ..........................   that's why when I was told that I was as equally important  as his friends ...I went crazy ... )
最恐懼：孤獨，不被喜愛   ( yes again .......   that's why I often heard his friends' or his comments about me ...and I was acting defensive )
最難達到的美德：謙卑 (Humility)  - ( ha ha ha ....   maybe it's true ...but working on it )
最難克服的執念：奉承 (Flattery)  ( I don't understand what does this one mean ? )