Tanya & Hua Loo Loo in Switzerland

  

 最近 常聽到  身邊一些人   用很宿命的方式來解釋自己一切的不順遂      給自己一堆理由來合理自己的行為跟處境　

there are always people  complaining about their lives ...  especially when things don't go smoothly ...   some , most of them are girls , would blame it to  their destinies ....  for not having a good fortune ...  they try to "accept " the situations they are in ,and make themself  believe that there is nothing else to do , instead of trying to find out why and how to change ... 

我想說的是    

"態度" 很重要    更重要的一點是  了解到自己該用什麼態度後    "行動力" 更重要   

I think having the right attitude is important , the " putting  in actions " is the key ... 


最近有一本書 叫做 "日子難過 也要笑著過 "     　我很認同他書中寫的　

I have recently read this book called  -   " Crosses  the hard times with smiles  "

在天底下  只有 想過  和  不想過 的日子   , 並沒有 好過 與 不好過  的日子 

I agree with what it says ...     

there  is only the life we want to live , or don't .  There isn't an easy life or tough life ...

 "  如果是自己不想過的日子  在怎麼"好過"  你也會認為是難過  

because ,  an " easy " life can still be a suffering for you when you are not living the life you really want ...  

但是  如果是自己想過的日子   在如何 "難過 "  你也會認為很充實    

instead ,  it will be a " fullfilling " life if you are living the life you want to ,even when it's not easy ....  

日子難過  必須問問自己到底想過什麼日子   

question to ask yourself , " what kind of life I want to live ? "       -  I have been asking myself the same thing ....   

為什麼要過眼前這種日子    只要把問題釐清   即便日子在怎麼難過  你也可以帶著微笑從容度過    "　

why are you living the life you are now ??      figure out how to develop plans to live the life you desire ....    everyone can cross the hard times with smiles ... 



I have an easy life ....  I have to admit ...    

but it's not fulfilling ...   I am happy in general , my family are great ...    I make enough money to support myself ...  but I always know this is not the life I want to live ..

I don't want a 9-5 job , I want a spontaneous working enviroment ... with flexible working schedules ...

I don't need a lot of money ...  don't need those brand names clothing .... but enough for buying things I want  and affordable ...  


I want to be able to have enough time doing things I want ....  learning things , I like learning different things...  painting , dancing ....languages ...     

I want to be able to help people in need ...   knowing being able to help others / friends makes me happy ...   



now ...  is HOW to achieve ...........................