" When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on--series polygamy--until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter."
~Tom Robbins
Tanya: woke up this morning and saw this quote in my mail box .... and thinking that in fact , I used to think like that , hoping and waiting to be fulfilled .... It's true that we are all responsible for our own fulfillment .... No wonder someone told me that I must take action first if I see someone I like , because I am the one who makes the decision ,who has the power to make things happen ..... ahh...... but you ask me to propose to him ?? humm... I need a lot more courage and a lot of alcohol to do that ha ha ha 
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