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Doesn't matter how much our parents love us , friends enjoy being with us ,or vice versa...but the person who lies next to you is actually your closest friend ,
the one who really means a lot to us..... what our husbands or wives think/want matters the most , not the others .... if we value the opinions of others more than our husbands or wives... then it's high chance that the relationship will fail ..
It requires intelligence, tolerance , love , magnanimity , and sense of humour to take this special course in marriage .... some people passes ad some fail ....
不管父母再怎麼愛惜，朋友再怎麼欣賞，跟你最親近、最休戚相關的人，其實是你枕邊的那人，
可惜很多人結完婚搞不清楚孰輕孰重，胳臂老是朝外彎，不相干的街外人，意見居然重要得過自己伴侶，這樣一定出問題 .....
婚姻不是容易做的習題，少一點智慧、容忍、愛心、肚量、幽默感都不行的.... I couldn't agree with it more....
What is perfect match ?? 什麼是完美對象? 對我們是完美? 雖然我們的家人朋友認為他/她不完美 而且當他們說這些時 他們是替我們想還是已他們的喜好來說?
perfect for us ? even though in our friends' or family's opinion he/she isn't perfect ...and when they say this , are they thinking for our best interests or base on their own likes and dislikes? ...??
people are allowed to speak their minds ,to express our views directly and frankly ... without hurting other people's feelings, of course .
But we are all different ,we have differnt personalities , differnt tastes in clothing , food...music ..different life styles...and different choices of life partners... Why should we let others make decisions for us, to tell us who to choose .... ??
人都有權力說出心中的想法 直接及誠實地表達我們的觀點 但已不傷害他人為前提 但是我們每人都不同 不同的個性 不同的個性 服裝食物音樂的品味上不同 不同生活型態 對生活伴侶選擇自然也不同 那我們為什麼要讓他人幫我們做決定 來告訴我們該選誰 ?
Where is my perfect match ? and How would I know if the next guy I met were the right one or not ? What if I think that he is my Mr.Right when the others don't .... Following your heart ...yes , I know .... but it's really difficult not to care what others might think , especially your family ...
Sometimes all these thoughts bother me .... make me confused .... bring more questions in my head ....my very conflicting mind .... :(
I suppose that there isn't a PERFECT solution to this problem .... what do you think ?
我的完美對象在哪? 我又該如何知道如果我下一個遇見的男人是適合還是不適合? 萬一我認為他是完美對象但大家不認同?? ..... 我知道 我們要聽從我們的心來做決定 但是要不去在乎其他人 尤其家人的看法還真是不容易
有些時候這些想法困擾我 讓我變的更困惑有著更多的疑問 我非常矛盾的心
我想這是一個無解的問題 你們覺得呢 ?
the one who really means a lot to us..... what our husbands or wives think/want matters the most , not the others .... if we value the opinions of others more than our husbands or wives... then it's high chance that the relationship will fail ..
It requires intelligence, tolerance , love , magnanimity , and sense of humour to take this special course in marriage .... some people passes ad some fail ....
不管父母再怎麼愛惜，朋友再怎麼欣賞，跟你最親近、最休戚相關的人，其實是你枕邊的那人，
可惜很多人結完婚搞不清楚孰輕孰重，胳臂老是朝外彎，不相干的街外人，意見居然重要得過自己伴侶，這樣一定出問題 .....
婚姻不是容易做的習題，少一點智慧、容忍、愛心、肚量、幽默感都不行的.... I couldn't agree with it more....
What is perfect match ?? 什麼是完美對象? 對我們是完美? 雖然我們的家人朋友認為他/她不完美 而且當他們說這些時 他們是替我們想還是已他們的喜好來說?
perfect for us ? even though in our friends' or family's opinion he/she isn't perfect ...and when they say this , are they thinking for our best interests or base on their own likes and dislikes? ...??
people are allowed to speak their minds ,to express our views directly and frankly ... without hurting other people's feelings, of course .
But we are all different ,we have differnt personalities , differnt tastes in clothing , food...music ..different life styles...and different choices of life partners... Why should we let others make decisions for us, to tell us who to choose .... ??
人都有權力說出心中的想法 直接及誠實地表達我們的觀點 但已不傷害他人為前提 但是我們每人都不同 不同的個性 不同的個性 服裝食物音樂的品味上不同 不同生活型態 對生活伴侶選擇自然也不同 那我們為什麼要讓他人幫我們做決定 來告訴我們該選誰 ?
Where is my perfect match ? and How would I know if the next guy I met were the right one or not ? What if I think that he is my Mr.Right when the others don't .... Following your heart ...yes , I know .... but it's really difficult not to care what others might think , especially your family ...
Sometimes all these thoughts bother me .... make me confused .... bring more questions in my head ....my very conflicting mind .... :(
I suppose that there isn't a PERFECT solution to this problem .... what do you think ?
我的完美對象在哪? 我又該如何知道如果我下一個遇見的男人是適合還是不適合? 萬一我認為他是完美對象但大家不認同?? ..... 我知道 我們要聽從我們的心來做決定 但是要不去在乎其他人 尤其家人的看法還真是不容易
有些時候這些想法困擾我 讓我變的更困惑有著更多的疑問 我非常矛盾的心
我想這是一個無解的問題 你們覺得呢 ?
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