Tanya & Hua Loo Loo in Switzerland

 真的愛一個人，感情應該是兼容並蓄的，即使無法愛屋及烏，連對方的缺點一併愛下去，至少也要做到可以欣賞其優點、茫視其缺點，而不是以自己的喜好去管制對方、壓抑或是改變人家。如果喜歡白鸚鵡，就應該買隻白鸚鵡來養，找隻烏鴉來把牠的羽毛漆成白色，烏鴉也不會就此變成鸚鵡了，總不可能說你只要愛人家的好處，而不去接受附加而來的壞處，沒有那麼便宜的事吧？這個世界上又沒有完美的人。

 from this blog -   http://www.wretch.cc/blog/justcrystal 

I am now reading her book which makes me cry and cry .... there are a lot more interesting articles in her blog ....   especially on the issues of relationships and some interesting stories about her daily life with her French Husband ....  I hope you find them inspiring as well...