Watched a movie on TV this evening ...... there is this couple in the movie , they look ,and are very different in many ways .... different backgrounds , different interests .....
今晚看了部影片 電影中有對情侶 他們在各方面完全不一樣 不同成長背景 職業不同 興趣不同
someone asks the man " what are you two doing together ?? .... you have nothing in common... " ( Tanya often thinks the same thing that we should all look for someone who is more like us .... someone who has the same interests ... someone who is perfect ... ) - but I have to admit that he has got the point here ...
有人問男主角說" 你們兩個為蛇麼會在一起 難道你不知道你們有多不同嗎 ? 你們沒有共同點"
(我也常常這樣認為 所謂的完美另一半應該是與我們一樣的人 有著共同興趣的 但是我必須承認這個人說的有它的道理 )
the man replies , " that's why we are looking for our other half ... because she is everyting I am not ... I am not whole without her "
他說" 這就是為什麼我們需要我們的另一半 她是我所缺少的那一半 沒了她我不是一個完整的人 "
I think he is right ..... we need our other half to make us whole.... that's why we say " other half " , 1/2 + 1/2 = 1 ..... and they don't have to be the same like us ....
and perhaps it is the " differences " that attract each other .... I recently have met two couples who are so so so different ..... you wouldn't wanto to match them up if you were their friends .... she likes to go out with her friends , but he likes to stay home , he likes to drink but she doesn't talk much ..... etc, but they have been married for years .... still in great relationships .....
或許所謂的另一半不見得是要是相似的人吧 !! 
難怪我們說另一半 一半 加上一半才會等於一
也或許是所謂的不同點吸引著彼此吧 我最近認識兩對夫妻 從我們來看 他們是那種你想不到會湊合他們 因為他們實在是太不同 結果他們也結婚幾年 感情好的很
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