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I was watching CSI the other night , and I like Grissom 's answer to Greg's question ... 前幾天我在看CSI時看到Grissom與Greg的對話
Greg : " So, what can get your juices flowing ? "
Greg問 " 什麼會使你興奮 ? "
Grissom turned and looked at him , " Someone who doesn't judge .. "
Grissom轉頭看著他說 一個不評論人的人
You are the man ! Grissom . 你是我的偶像 Grissom !!
Sean : , "Thank you for your help by talking to me many years ago , you are right , I can't imagine my life without my wife "
Christian ( his friend ) replied , " Man, I only told you what you wanted to hear ... "
Sean 說 " 真的很謝謝你幾年前說的 你是對的 ! 我無法想像沒有我老婆的生活 "
他的好友回答說 : 我只是告訴你當時想廳的 "
I think we all know what we should /want to do most of the time ... but we still hope to get supports from people around us .
我想我們再大部分時間其實都知道我們應該或想做什麼 只是我們還是希望得到身邊人的支持
" No one can predict or control the future
However , the more clearly you imagine what you want to see happen , plan for it,
and do something today to help it happen ,
the less anxious you are in the present , and the more the future is known to you "
"沒有人可以預測或控制未來 然而 你越能清楚的想像你希望發生的未來
用心的計畫並做一些事情幫助你的未來實現
你越不擔心未來 你越能清楚看見的的未來 "
I really like what it says above , and I have been thinking about it .... 我很喜歡上述的話 也一直在思考
我試著問我自己 I have tried to ask myslef the following questions
" What is positive about right now . and how does it make me feel ? "
" 對於正面的現在, 我的看法如何 ?
" What would a wonderful future look like ? "
＂一個美好的未來是長什麼樣? "
" What are my plans to make it happen ? "
"我對實現未來的計畫為何 ? "
" What am I doing today to make it happen ? "
"我現在能做些什麼來使它實現? "
and to be honest , I can only answer the first question .........
老實說我只能回答第一個問題
but for the second and the rest of them .......... I can't , I don't know my answers to them .... why ?
但是第二及其他的我回答不出來 為什麼會這樣??
I have never really thought about my future before ..... what my future would look like ...... I know it will be good .....
我從來沒認真想過我的未來 它會是什麼樣子 我只知道它會很好 ...................
A guy friend said to me when I mentioned my questions to him .... " Your future ?? just find a good man and get married ... "
一個男性朋友再我提出我的問題時跟我說 " 你的未來? 就是找個好男人嫁了啊? "
I looked at him and said , " That's it ?? that's where my future , my life ends "
我回答說 就這樣啊 然後呢 ?? 我的未來還是人生就到這裡結束了嗎? "
I think I just want to be happy , like now ... to be able to do whatever I want ... with my friends , with my new boyfriend , I might have to change my boyfriend every two or three years ....
going to places I want , make my own plans without worrying about what other people may like or not like ....
我只想要保持快樂 就像現在 我能做我想要的 跟我朋友們 跟我的新男友 我或許得每兩三年換個新男友 照這樣被我操下去的話 哈哈哈
我去想去的地方 隨意安排自己的計畫而不需要擔心別人喜不喜歡
I used to think that where my late ex would go, where my future would be ... and never bothered to think about it ..... he got to decide everything , he didn't value my opinion anyway .... for example where he wanted to live , and how many rooms he wanted to have and if I was allowed to have a TV in the dining area or in the bedroom .... and what kind of music we listened to and what TV programs he wanted to watch ..... but then I was like a robot .... depressing my feelings ....just last week, an old friend of mine suddenly said to me that they all think that I was like a " Little" woman ,a very obedient woman... I was shocked then denied ... later the more I thought about it , the more I think he is right ....... there were many things I had to give up just because of him .... and the worst part is , he was too self-centered without knowing jow I felt but accusing me and my family for feeling unnecessary pressures ........ he didn't like my family . he often criticised them ... and his family were perfect ....except for one of his sister who he didn't get along well ... same as his friends ... as long as they are his friends no one can say anything bad about them ,only himself .............. that's why we often said that he had double standards ...
我以前只單純想不管我的前男友去哪我的未來就在哪 從沒認真想太多 反正就他決定麻 他反正也不真的重視我的意見 比如說 他決定要住哪 房子要有幾間房間 我是否可以在房間或餐廳裝電視 包括要聽什麼音樂 要看什麼電視節目 我好像是個機器人 一直壓抑自己的感覺 ..... 所以當上星期一個老朋友說他以前就覺得我是個小女人時 我嚇一跳否認說我不是 但是我後來越想越對 在過去我有好多事都因為他而放棄 但是最糟的部分是他自我到不隻到我的感受而只會指責我和我的家人所感受到的壓力是無謂的 簡單來說 他並不是很喜歡我的家人 他常批評我的家人 而認為他的家人很完美 除了他跟一個妹妹不合外 就像他的朋友 只要他認定他們是朋友 他們就會是完美的 別人不能批評他們 就只有他 這就是為什麼我們常常說他是雙重標準
Was talking with a friend tonight whose ex has recently made a contact with her ( he is British ) , and she was not very happy with the email he wrote her ... so we were chatting about relationships ... I advised her to delete him from MSN and delete all his emails............. since contacting with him has made her feel unhappy and uncomfortable ...... that's how I felt and what I did with my late ex ... I pretend that he had been killed in a car accident .... he is dead ... the end of the story . 晚上在跟朋友聊天 他因為最近一個前男友跟他連絡 (也是個英國人) 造成他一些不愉快的感覺 我建議他把他從MSN上刪掉 刪掉他的信件 既然繼續與他聯繫只會造成不愉快感覺 那麼真的沒必要 這也是我之前感覺的而我也這麼做 我就當作他這人死了 故事結束 Game over .
If we don't truly let go of the past , then we will never be able to move on .... how to let go your past , you have to learn from it .... avoiding talking about the past is not the best solution ... because we can actually get to see things that we haven't noticed by talking about it ... eventually you will let it go as there is nothing for you to learn from the past .......
如果我們不能真正忘懷過去 我們永遠無法繼續我們的未來 如何忘懷過去 你必須要先從過去中學習 , 但是我總覺得 避而不談過去 並不是一個好方法 因為藉由討論過去我們其實可以慢慢看出一些之前沒注意到的事 最後有一天我們終會放手因為你已經從過去中學習了
but ............ I still don't know what my future would be like .... I don't want to have my own career .... that's for sure ..... ahhh.........
但是 講了半天 我還是不知我的未來是怎樣 我又不想有自己的事業 我還滿確定的 天啊
Greg : " So, what can get your juices flowing ? " Greg問 " 什麼會使你興奮 ? "
Grissom turned and looked at him , " Someone who doesn't judge .. "
Grissom轉頭看著他說 一個不評論人的人
You are the man ! Grissom . 你是我的偶像 Grissom !!
Sean : , "Thank you for your help by talking to me many years ago , you are right , I can't imagine my life without my wife " Christian ( his friend ) replied , " Man, I only told you what you wanted to hear ... "
Sean 說 " 真的很謝謝你幾年前說的 你是對的 ! 我無法想像沒有我老婆的生活 "
他的好友回答說 : 我只是告訴你當時想廳的 "
I think we all know what we should /want to do most of the time ... but we still hope to get supports from people around us .
我想我們再大部分時間其實都知道我們應該或想做什麼 只是我們還是希望得到身邊人的支持
" No one can predict or control the future
However , the more clearly you imagine what you want to see happen , plan for it,
and do something today to help it happen ,
the less anxious you are in the present , and the more the future is known to you "
"沒有人可以預測或控制未來 然而 你越能清楚的想像你希望發生的未來
用心的計畫並做一些事情幫助你的未來實現
你越不擔心未來 你越能清楚看見的的未來 "
I really like what it says above , and I have been thinking about it .... 我很喜歡上述的話 也一直在思考
我試著問我自己 I have tried to ask myslef the following questions
" What is positive about right now . and how does it make me feel ? "
" 對於正面的現在, 我的看法如何 ?
" What would a wonderful future look like ? "
＂一個美好的未來是長什麼樣? "
" What are my plans to make it happen ? "
"我對實現未來的計畫為何 ? "
" What am I doing today to make it happen ? "
"我現在能做些什麼來使它實現? "
and to be honest , I can only answer the first question .........
老實說我只能回答第一個問題
but for the second and the rest of them .......... I can't , I don't know my answers to them .... why ?
但是第二及其他的我回答不出來 為什麼會這樣??
I have never really thought about my future before ..... what my future would look like ...... I know it will be good .....
我從來沒認真想過我的未來 它會是什麼樣子 我只知道它會很好 ...................
A guy friend said to me when I mentioned my questions to him .... " Your future ?? just find a good man and get married ... "
一個男性朋友再我提出我的問題時跟我說 " 你的未來? 就是找個好男人嫁了啊? "
I looked at him and said , " That's it ?? that's where my future , my life ends "
我回答說 就這樣啊 然後呢 ?? 我的未來還是人生就到這裡結束了嗎? "
I think I just want to be happy , like now ... to be able to do whatever I want ... with my friends , with my new boyfriend , I might have to change my boyfriend every two or three years ....
going to places I want , make my own plans without worrying about what other people may like or not like .... 我只想要保持快樂 就像現在 我能做我想要的 跟我朋友們 跟我的新男友 我或許得每兩三年換個新男友 照這樣被我操下去的話 哈哈哈
我去想去的地方 隨意安排自己的計畫而不需要擔心別人喜不喜歡
I used to think that where my late ex would go, where my future would be ... and never bothered to think about it ..... he got to decide everything , he didn't value my opinion anyway .... for example where he wanted to live , and how many rooms he wanted to have and if I was allowed to have a TV in the dining area or in the bedroom .... and what kind of music we listened to and what TV programs he wanted to watch ..... but then I was like a robot .... depressing my feelings ....just last week, an old friend of mine suddenly said to me that they all think that I was like a " Little" woman ,a very obedient woman... I was shocked then denied ... later the more I thought about it , the more I think he is right ....... there were many things I had to give up just because of him .... and the worst part is , he was too self-centered without knowing jow I felt but accusing me and my family for feeling unnecessary pressures ........ he didn't like my family . he often criticised them ... and his family were perfect ....except for one of his sister who he didn't get along well ... same as his friends ... as long as they are his friends no one can say anything bad about them ,only himself .............. that's why we often said that he had double standards ...
我以前只單純想不管我的前男友去哪我的未來就在哪 從沒認真想太多 反正就他決定麻 他反正也不真的重視我的意見 比如說 他決定要住哪 房子要有幾間房間 我是否可以在房間或餐廳裝電視 包括要聽什麼音樂 要看什麼電視節目 我好像是個機器人 一直壓抑自己的感覺 ..... 所以當上星期一個老朋友說他以前就覺得我是個小女人時 我嚇一跳否認說我不是 但是我後來越想越對 在過去我有好多事都因為他而放棄 但是最糟的部分是他自我到不隻到我的感受而只會指責我和我的家人所感受到的壓力是無謂的 簡單來說 他並不是很喜歡我的家人 他常批評我的家人 而認為他的家人很完美 除了他跟一個妹妹不合外 就像他的朋友 只要他認定他們是朋友 他們就會是完美的 別人不能批評他們 就只有他 這就是為什麼我們常常說他是雙重標準
Was talking with a friend tonight whose ex has recently made a contact with her ( he is British ) , and she was not very happy with the email he wrote her ... so we were chatting about relationships ... I advised her to delete him from MSN and delete all his emails............. since contacting with him has made her feel unhappy and uncomfortable ...... that's how I felt and what I did with my late ex ... I pretend that he had been killed in a car accident .... he is dead ... the end of the story . 晚上在跟朋友聊天 他因為最近一個前男友跟他連絡 (也是個英國人) 造成他一些不愉快的感覺 我建議他把他從MSN上刪掉 刪掉他的信件 既然繼續與他聯繫只會造成不愉快感覺 那麼真的沒必要 這也是我之前感覺的而我也這麼做 我就當作他這人死了 故事結束 Game over .
If we don't truly let go of the past , then we will never be able to move on .... how to let go your past , you have to learn from it .... avoiding talking about the past is not the best solution ... because we can actually get to see things that we haven't noticed by talking about it ... eventually you will let it go as there is nothing for you to learn from the past .......
如果我們不能真正忘懷過去 我們永遠無法繼續我們的未來 如何忘懷過去 你必須要先從過去中學習 , 但是我總覺得 避而不談過去 並不是一個好方法 因為藉由討論過去我們其實可以慢慢看出一些之前沒注意到的事 最後有一天我們終會放手因為你已經從過去中學習了
but ............ I still don't know what my future would be like .... I don't want to have my own career .... that's for sure ..... ahhh.........
但是 講了半天 我還是不知我的未來是怎樣 我又不想有自己的事業 我還滿確定的 天啊
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