Yesterday I heard a shocking news from a friend ..................... then today I got a message from another friend of mine .... earlier I was watching the TV series - " LOST" on TV - if you have seen it , you should know that there is a Korean couple on the island .. Kim and Sun . Kim was going to join Jack and the other people to look for Michael , but his wife , Sun, stopped him ... he said to his wife : " Michael is my friend " , then his wife looked at him and said " And I am your wife . " Guess what ? Kim stayed . He made his choice
昨天聽到一個震驚消息 接著今天另一個朋友留言給我 剛剛看電視影集Lost , 如果你有看過 你應該知道影集裡 有一對韓國夫妻在島上 Kim and Sun , Kim原本打算加入 Jack跟其他人去找Michael 但是他的老婆 Sun制止了他 他說: Michael是我的朋友 他老婆看著他說 :但是我是你的老婆 猜猜結果是 老公留下來了 他做了他的選擇
And the doctor , Jack , his wife left him , because Jack had made his choice between his work and his wife .... 另外那個醫生Jack,他的老婆離開他是因為他也在家人與工作 對病人的責任間做了選擇
I was in this kind of situation before , and he also made his choice - his loyalty to his friends . He emphasised many times that his friends were extremely important to him .... ( not that I had made him to choose between me and his friends ) well, I think we are sometimes being lenient to our friends ,but strickt to our family ..... but all I can say is what he did was outrageous ,and I found it was impossible for me to accept it . 我自己也曾處於這樣的情況 他做了選擇 選擇他對朋友的忠誠 他跟我強調很多次他的朋友對他是非常非常重要 (不是我有要求他做選擇 ) 但是他對我及我的家人過分苛求的態度 而卻對他的朋友表現非常寬容 我無法接受 當然我們人有時是會對朋友比家人好 這似乎很難去說對與錯
even One of my friends recently has had this problem as well..... men and their friendship , men and their work VS their women ..... 
Is this the dilemma women will never understand ?? Why do we have to choose ?? Why do we feel being threatened by their work , friends ...?? And is this our fault ??
我的朋友最近也遇到這個問題 男人與他們的工作 男人與他們的 友誼 對上他們的女人 這是個我們女人永遠不會了解的難題嗎 ?? 為什麼我們必須選擇? 為什麼我們會覺得被他們的工作朋友威脅到? 這是我們的錯嗎 ?
你們可以分享你們的看法嗎 ? I would be grateful if you could share your thoughts on this with me .....
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