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Don't know why I decided to bring it home when I saw this plant in a store ...   just feel like it ...  felt like inviting Isabelle home , felt like taking the dog home .... felt like buying a house plant ..........  I just felt like it ... the feelings are right ... so I made the decisions without thinking ...  I think that I must have caused the people around me a lot of trouble ... especially my family ...       
不知為什麼當我看到這盆花時就決定帶他回家  就是想這樣做  就像我決定帶剛遇到的韓國人回家住 決定帶可憐的流浪狗回家照顧一陣子  就只是感覺對了 也沒思考太多
我的這樣的個性應該帶給我週遭的人不少困擾吧 尤其是我的家人   最近要克制一下

      

  Definition-- Magnanimous - courageously noble in heart and mind. Having, or showing generosity, often in the context of being forgiving.
Am I a magnanimous person ??   I have been thinking ...    Can anyone really be truly magnanimous ???   or they just choose not to say anything in order to avoid causing more problems .... ?? 


On my way home in a taxi this afternoon ...  I noticed that the taxi driver stopped the meter while we were waiting for the light ...  he explained to me that he doesn't charge his passengers whenever they meet a red light , and we- the passengers get to save at least NT 20-30 dollars each trip ....   I was surprised , I asked him if he thinks that he is making less money than other people by doing so ..  just like I had expected , " NO , enjoying your life and doing the right thing right is much more important than making that extra 20 dollars "he said . So we started chatting ....   I often think that if we focus too much on how much money that we must make or save , or being fussy about things or people that don't actually matter ... No matter how rich you are , you will never be truly happy .  I used to worry about how little time I worked , or how much money I would "lose " if I took a few days off ... but the funny thing is , the more I thought about it , or the harder I tried to " SAVE" money ...the poorer I felt I was ....   until I had stopped thinking about it , then I found my happiness again..and as well as " MONEY "  :)     Now , I am trying to focus on what I have to do everyday ...   play hard and work hard ...  when I have a chance to have fun ... I take it , and when it's time for me to work ... I work . 
 When I see a chance to help others , I try my best ...   
 

 Giving is better than receiving because giving starts the receiving process

New Study Shows that it increases the giver's longevity too, at least when it comes to giving social support. 

The taxi driver looks like 40 somthing ...but in fact that he is already 56 years old ....  he looks happy and he has got a great and loud laugh ..
Go-figure ...


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