來自 http://www.wretch.cc/blog/rebecca73&article_id=3870865
" 每個人都有過去, 所以要在乎的是現在的他, 他是否用心在付出, 真心的在愛妳. 這些只有自己最清楚. 如因對方曾經犯的一個錯, 而抺刹了他所有的好, 所有的真心付出. 那妳可能失去的是一個你永遠也找不到的感情. 畢竟, 要找到一個愛妳的和妳也愛的人, 不是那麼簡單的....
當下我無法告訴Ally解不解除婚約這件事....我想沒有人能給她答案. 因為這決定太深重了.
我一直深深的明白, 當妳的朋友看的起妳, 希望妳為她的感情路提供一些意見時, 這時妳每一句話都得小心, 因為一般人, 尤其是女人, 很容易因為手帕交的義氣, 而同聲跟自己的女伴來遣責那位"負心"的男人..而忘了採取更客觀的態度來當個Listener. "
I totally agree with what she says here , each one of us has the past ... so we should focus on the PRESENT instead of talking about the PAST ... it's more important that if he really loves you and cares for you than what he did or didn't do before ... if we are obsessed by the mistakes he has made in the past , then we will never be happy ,and to be able to feel "love" , to be able to enjoy our life ... and more importantly , we might lose the relationship , we might lose the person who you deeply love .... I think she is right , finding someone you love and who loves you isn't easy ...
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